On a recent timeline planning call with one of my sweet brides she asked me when during the reception she and her fiancé should do their first dance. This is such a great question! There are definitely times that will interrupt the flow of dinner service or the reception in general. Depending on your reception layout, there are two clear winning options. 

Dinner & Dancing In The Same Space 

In the first reception layout, you and your guests will eat dinner in the same space that dancing will take place. Tables will be arranged around the dance floor. This is the layout used at The Mandarin Oriental, The Boston Harbor Hotel, and Wychmere Beach Club. 

Do your first dance right after you are announced into the reception in your grand entrance. 

As you enter, you will already have all of your guests’ attention. Guests may even be lined up around the dance floor to watch without interrupting the flow of the reception or the dinner service. 

If you are a bride planning to change into a reception outfit, this is perfect for you. You’ll get stunning photos of you dancing in your gown before you put on your party dress! 

Another benefit is that you get to have your moment in the limelight and then relax for the rest of the evening. This is especially great if you are shy so you don’t have to be nervous through dinner! 

Dinner & Dancing In Separate Spaces

In the second reception layout, you will eat dinner in one space and then guests will move with you to a completely separate space for dancing. This is the layout used at the Boston Public Library and the Museum of Science. 

Do your first dance once guests have been ushered out of dinner and into the room for dancing. 

The transition into the dancing space gives a natural point to gather everyone’s attention for your first dance before the dance floor is officially opened to guests. There won’t be any interruption to the flow of the reception and dinner service will have already concluded. 

Your dancing location will offer plenty of space for any photography you have planned. Guests will have an easy time gathering around so they don’t miss a moment of your dance! 

This is usually a room made just for dancing. At the end of your first dance together, you can welcome guests to join you on the dance floor. This allows you to set the tone for a fun and full dance floor all night long!

No matter what your reception layout, your first dance is sure to be a highlight of your night. Still have questions about what works best for you and your venue? Reach out, and I would love to help you think it through. See you on the dance floor!